Jacqueline ElliottLeadership Strategist | CEO, Mother, Wife, Legacy-Builder

My Top 3 Rules to Fighting Fair! ‼️👊 #shorts

18 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube clip (Jacqueline Elliott) giving advice on how couples should 'fight fair.' The speaker contrasts healthy couples—who fight to resolve problems—with unhealthy couples—who fight to 'win' or score personal victories, bring up historical grievances, and fail to let issues go. The aim is to encourage constructive conflict that resolves issues so they don't recur.

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There are rules to fighting, so you ask that. So I believe in fighting fair. There's healthy couples. They fight for resolution. Right? Not for personal victory. So unhealthy couples fight to win for personal victory, and they just want to prove their point. So they're just waiting to just say what they want to say, and they say, hey, you know what? I made my point. I'm the last one to speak. I. I made my point, and I'm done. So they're not fighting fair? No, they're not fighting fair, or they're getting historical, and they're saying, you know, you know, I remember when you did this. Or they're not letting things go. If you're gonna fight about something, fighting is to solve a problem that doesn't have to be brought up later.