Jacqueline Elliott on fighting fair in relationships. Don't fight to win, avoid saying things you'll regret, don't dredge up old stuff, fight fast, say what you mean, and make up well after.
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Who here is in a relationship and you don't fight, raise your hand. You're full of. Okay, first of all, if you don't fight, if you don't fight, you don't have a real relationship. Your relationship is dead. So I'm gonna give you three rules for fighting, and this will change your life. Okay? You don't fight for personal victory. That means you don't fight to win. You fight fair. You don't say things you're gonna regret, and you don't get historical. I'm gonna add a fourth one in there. You fight fast, and that's it. Say what you mean. I'm gonna add a fifth there. Great makeup afterwards, of course. I mean, if you want to leave a little bit of the anger in there, there's nothing better than this. Like, you don't get historical, and you're, like, in it. And then you're like, we just need to make love. And that's, like, usually the best ever. Like, I'm just telling you.