A short YouTube monologue (Jacqueline Elliott) advising people to stop waiting for others to change and instead look inward and take action themselves. The speaker argues that waiting for a partner to change leaves you stuck and unhappy, whereas changing yourself can inspire the other person and improve the relationship.
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A lot of times we wait for other people to change before we change, or we look at people through the window and instead of looking at the mirror and seeing how you can change, if you're in a relationship and you say, hey, my spouse does this, this, this and that, and you're waiting for that to change your relationship as a couple, you're always going to be stuck waiting for the other person to make a movie. You're not going to find comfort. You're not going to find you're not going to be happy because you're always waiting on the other person to be happy. So if you take action and you look at yourself and you look at your problem, what you can fix in that, then the other person is going to be going to be inspired to change. But if you're waiting for somebody to take action before you, you're going to be stuck waiting your whole entire life.