The standard that matters most is the private one you keep with your spouse. Your choice of partner determines how well you achieve your goals, and the quality of how you work together is what builds a life. Staying miserable in a marriage isn't success.
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Everybody talks about standards, but the one thing that a lot of people never get to see is a standard that you hold in your marriage, not in public, but when no one's around. I feel like our standard in our marriage is probably the highest standard that me and her carry, and I feel like it's responsible for everything going good in our life. If we're thinking about how you're going to become successful, how you're going to become happy, who you're with will determine all that. And then now the question is, how well do you and that person work together? Mhm. You got to be excited about this. A lot of people, they're like, oh, This is a lot. No, it's not. I can't believe you guys get to fix the most important thing in your life, which is your damn marriage. What are you talking about? Like, it's not a win if you go your whole life and you're miserable and you don't get a divorce and you say, we stuck it through. Like, I don't think that's a win. Okay. Like,