Waiting for people to change is a waste of time, do this instead ⬆️ // Jacqueline Elliott

A lot of times we wait for other people to change before we change. If you're in a relationship and you say, hey, my spouse does this, this, this, and that, and you're waiting for that to change, you're always going to be stuck waiting for the other person to make a move, and you're not going to find comfort. You're not going to be happy, because you're always waiting on the other person to be happy. So if you take action and you look at yourself and you look at your problem, what you can fix in that relationship, then the other person is going to be inspired to change. But if you're waiting for somebody to take action before you, you're going to be stuck waiting your whole entire life. So if you' willing to change, you will be miserable waiting on somebody else's happiness before yours.