Short-form YouTube clip (a "short") where multiple speakers (labeled A–C) discuss performing a "life audit" of personal relationships. Core advice: keep people who actively support you; remove those who do not. The speakers note that some people may disappear for extended periods (e.g., "two years") and can be rechecked later; others will repeatedly remind you of past failures and may try to talk you out of new ambitions. The piece emphasizes choosing who you want in your life proactively rather than letting the world decide.
You were talking about having like a life audit with people. What's the criteria of something that survives that audit? And how do you know what stays to be a pillared like in your words?
Well, so if they support you, then they stay. If they don't, then they're gone. And by the way, some people can disappear for two years and then you can check back in two years once you accomplish your stuff and then check back in. And if they're still not on, then just check them out for life. We've got to decide what we want. And if you can't decide, this world's going to decide for you and I'm not having it. I'm calling my shot.
A lot of people that in your life, they've heard you before make promises or say, hey, I'm going to try this endeavor, I'm going to try this. And you fail. And then you say, I'm going to give it all I got. I'm going to give it this amount of time. And then you fail again. So you come up with a new idea. And the first thing they're going to do naturally is they're going to question you and they're going to remind you how you failed over and over. What's going to happen is that when you finally believe in something that you really, really want to do, you're going to have some people in your ear telling you or talking you out of it because they've seen you fail in pass. But that's when you're going to have to.