Jake Burhans argues that comparison steals happiness because no two people have the same personality, circumstances, values, or skills. The real work is turning inward to understand yourself and align your actions with what actually matters to you.
There's a quote, comparison is a thief of joy, and it is like the best quote of all time. You cannot compare yourself to anyone else because everyone else has different personality traits, different situations, different values, different skills. Just you have to, you have to really feel into who you are and what's, what makes sense for you. I feel like I should be doing. It's hard to do that too.
