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Conscious Conversations video # 6 - GET CURIOUS, NOT FURIOUS!

Name: Conscious Conversations video # 6 - GET CURIOUS, NOT FURIOUS!
Uploaded: 2023-01-09T09:21:17+00:00
Duration: 45 s
Channel: Janet Macaluso, MSOD, Ed.M., CPC
Description: Excerpt from a short YouTube monologue advocating a regenerative, conscious approach to conversations: prioritize learning others' perspectives rather…

9 Jan 2023 · 1 min

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Excerpt from a short YouTube monologue advocating a regenerative, conscious approach to conversations: prioritize learning others' perspectives rather than imposing one’s own story; practice humility and curiosity to expand understanding. The speaker contrasts a traditional self-centered conversational style with intentionally seeking what others see that you may be missing.

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Instead of my traditional way of conversation, which is, here's my head and my story, and I'm filling up my head with my story. I want to fill your head up with your story. The more regenerative, conscious approach would be to see multiple perspectives that I was talking about. The way I think about it sometimes is imagine the other person only has an IQ of 100, an average of 100. Because I'm upset with the person, I'm not thinking they're any smarter than that. What is it that they can see that I'm missing? And I want to expand. That takes courage and humility to see that.