Recorded evening Q&A (July 7, 2009) featuring Jaya Pataka Swami and multiple speakers. Major themes in this chunk: handling marital difficulties and divorce from a devotional perspective; proper attitude toward bona-fide spiritual masters (guru), illustrated with traditional Gaudiya-Vaishnava examples (Chaitanya Mahaprabhu, Sarvabhauma Bhattacharya) and cautions about abandoning a bona-fide guru.
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Dear groomer, Many times, many times we see the couples get married. And initially they are happy or seem to be happy. And after some months or years, even though they struggle to keep it together, they end up divorcing. Why this happens and what is the solution to give avoid divorce.
I know why you're asking me. But since you asked, I'll try to answer. Sometimes in naturally starts out good but then husband starts with the oil. So the wife was too shy because she's being mistreated. Taking some counseling. So the Holy Grail. What should I do? Stay with him. Help him and Christian live life. Answer.
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Although little different than the worship has started now. How is their parents successful? Why is the living how they stick together all their lives? Somehow they got that secret. Now somehow they're sticking a style both for counseling. Senior as the counselor communication.
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If.
You serve Krishna he is asking when pure devotees of the Lord they come to this material world by the will of the Supreme Lord to rescue the conditioned souls. Do they know that they are the Personas? They are the associates of the Lord when they are in this material world, some may understand, some may remember or some may not remember. Just like Sama Parcharyu who was one of the associates of Chaitanya. He was the guru of the Teddy girl.
So.
He was born in Vidyanagar. That place was overtaken by Mayavadis because of the influence of the Mayavadis he went to Jagannath Puri and he took Shiksha from Mayavadis Sannyasis.
He trained.
Him and he was listening to his lecture every day. But you are giving Mayawadi explanation to him. Why you are not asking me any question. I can understand commentaries of the Vedanta Sutra But I cannot understand what is the explanation you are giving to me. So in this way Chaitanya he points Salam Bhattacharya. But Sargam Bacharya was thinking that oh, do you understand better than me? Then he asked him to check the name of you explain to me at.
The present.
Then Chaitanya Mahaprabhu explained this atmaram verse in 64 different ways to him. Then Sarabharchaya regained his knowledge. Then he started to ask him who are you?
Who are you?
Please reveal yourself to me. Manifested his six hand form soluble form in front of Sadhu. In this way Salvo Bhattacharya submitted himself to the Chaitanya Maharaj. Then he became the devotee of Chaitanya. One day after, soon after Chaitanya Mahpur finished Mangalati in Jalamhand temple. Then he came to see Sarada Bhattacharya and he asked oh, you didn't come to Manguahati today. What happened? Are you sick or what happened to you? There are some reasons that are equal to compared to.
Aju.
Then as soon as he got that castle nut in his hand, he started to eat. Started to tell him oh, you are smart to run it without having Daniel kids. You are eating something. Then he chanted one verse from his picture which explains the meaning that as soon as you receive Raghanna Swarmasadam in your hand without considering the rules and regulations, you must immediately honor the Mahara Sahib.
These are so.
Now I have examined you. You are really good. Everybody distributed cash. Not to everybody, everybody started.
So.
We have tested this cashew nut a lot before. But why it is testing so special? There is this nectar from the mouth of Krishna which does in his catal. That's why it is tasting so well. It does not appear to him whether you are desperately or not. When he realized then only he understood.
Was it not there to ask?
It was not clear to us whether he realized. Even though many associates of the Lord they come and take part in the fasting for the Lord. They sometimes.
See there was Arunda who actually he was.
What was his identity? In front of him is Ram Chatra then understood his follow up when he went.
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Groomera. It is offensive to think Grumara is a human. So if sometimes such kind of understanding comes into our mind, what should I decide to do? Recommends we should never think guru as a human being. One time one devotee from Namraj he came to me. Their Kulaburu is a different kind of personality. What is this? What is this?
You are offering to meet?
I am guru, you know. If you give me nice kushas, there is no peace here today. What are you offering to me? We have learned from Iskcon Guru sudden thank you.
I will show them.
Then he said okay, I don't want to hear this. I don't want to come back to your home again. If you find such kind of guru definitely you can identify these nodes as.
Guru you question we cannot reply shastra or anything Discover we are allowed to inject.
Prabhupada is underway similar difficulties and he came to Mayapur. At that time there was no good road communication around four to five hours. At that time it took four to five hours drive from airport to when Sri Papan was coming to my room he was taking bears sitting in the car. Oh, he's acting like a normal human being.
He's living.
So quickly didn't know how much level used to get. So immediately he is taking rest for a while swimming. So what's the big thing? He can take rest. If then you sincerely Sadhguru Whoever sincerely open to Guru then we can politely speak to him.
Kindly guide me how to react even in unfavorable situations following your instructions so that I should not get down by his reaction.
So I was thinking I feel guilty Guru give me some service which I like to feel like a suffer for the Guru he give me something which I like to do but very clear Diva.
Senior professor. So he was telling us with care can more than long.
If you feel like that or yes.
It is forbidden in this Shastra to give up a bona fide spiritual master. If in any case someone who has some selfish interest just to fulfill his selfish desire he gives up a bonapai guru and goes to another guru and takes shelter of him. Then what happens to him? Or what is his present and future condition? There was a devotee living in Vrindavan whose name was Nitai Dasna where he used to go and associate with the devadis outside.
And.
So by taking association from the Babadis he accepted initiation from them and he gave us.
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When Baba said he will not get a bonafide guru for next two lux bir. 2000-002000-00200,001 times. Part means a lot of time. Big big amount of time. No, I have reduced this.
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The injection of second cytometer. You will not be able to find a bonafide guru for 14 lifetimes.
He said.
I told him only 2 lakhs. But he was supposed to. He was supposed not to get 400 plus. So I had reduced it to 50 times by 50 times. So from this instance we can understand it is not it is not advisable to give up. If somebody willfully gives us a bona fide guru then he will not be able to get a bona fide guru for next 100 lucks lifetime.
So that they can give them blessing.
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