In this motivational video, Jayesh Patel shares a story he heard from his mentor about four archetypal roles people play in life, summarized as the four "W's": Winner, Watcher, Wonderer, and Wanderer. He uses the metaphor of a boxing ring to illustrate each role: the Winner actively competes in the arena; the Watcher observes and comments from the sidelines; the Wonderer stays outside the ring, curious but not engaged; and the Wanderer is indifferent, drifting without purpose. Patel argues that a person’s income, success, and personal growth are directly linked to which role they adopt, with Winners (even when they lose) gaining the most learning and compensation, while Watchers, Wonderers, and Wanderers miss out on true progress. He challenges viewers to reflect on which "W" they identify with and encourages them to choose the Winner role to achieve greater fulfillment. The video ends with a call for comments and personal reflections.
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Good morning all of you. Today is the day two of the challenge and I want to share a very beautiful story which I heard sometimes back from my mentor. So this story is about the four types of people, what we have in the world, the four types, and for easy remembrance, just remember four W's. So this is the story of how we are in the stage of the life and what we get in our life depends on what type of people are we. So the first person is somebody who is a winner. This person plays in the arena. Imagine yourself into a boxing ring and you are the person who is a player playing out the boxing game. Then the second type of person are the person who are the watchers. These are the people who will cheer you up, who will say that you should have done this, you should have done that. And they would be the person will either be cheering you, booing you, but they would be on the fence. The third people are the wanderers. The wanderers are the one who are outside the ring, so they can't see anything. They are not actively into that thing, but they are hearing and wondering what is going on inside, who is winning, who is losing. So this person is going to lose, this person is going to win. I am now going to play a part about how the thing goes around. And the fourth are the person who are wanderers. These are the people who are neither thinking, neither outside the room. They are somewhere wandering. They are clueless about what's happening in the world, what's happening to them, what they are. They are just wanderers in the forest who are looking for something which a new starts getting attracted to them. But they don't want to be a part of the game, neither they want to be the person who want to watch the game either. They are the person who want to really even wonder what's going on in the game. They are the person who are the indifferent ones. Now, what does this 4W story teach us? The thing is your income levels and your success, your progress depends on which W you choose. Most of the people choose to be a wanderer because that's the most easiest thing to do in life, not becoming a part of that a little more sensible. People wonder what's going on. They don't like to be a part of the game. Neither learn it, neither watch it, neither get engaged. But they are somebody who says that, okay, I'm going to just wonder what's happening. And the third person are the watchers who see that, okay, I'm not going to actively play, but I'm going to give a Comment on everything what's happening in the life and you will find majority of the people into that area and the third person is the winner. The winner may be a loser because in a boxing match you know there is always going to be one winner or a draw, but there is not going to be two winners. So for a world who is a watcher, wanderer and wonder, the person who is losing out is a failure. But look at the winner and look at the failure. Both are winners in my area because they are in the game. And it's a saying, spectators pay for seeing the game, players get paid to play the game. And you now can correlate very well that even somebody in the ring who is failing, is actually getting paid, is actually getting respect, is actually understanding a lot of things. But the person on the fence sitter, who is the watcher, the person who's going to give you comment about what you could have done better, what you could have not done better, but doesn't want to play the game. And the third is somebody who is a wanderer who wonders what's actually happening, which side should I choose? And you will find some of your ex colleagues, some of your distant friends and relatives. They are the wanderers. Wanderers. And then there are the wanderers who are indifferent what's happening in the world. They simply don't care to see what's actually happening. Neither they are in a part of the game, neither they are understanding the game, neither they are worried about the game. They're simply trying to just pass on with the time. And the universe has its way. The winner gets paid the most. The watchers get paid to enjoy the entertainment to the winners. Wanderers think what's actually happening. They also pay in one way with their time, with their thinking. And wanderers are somebody who are simply wasting their time on something which is not a part of the game. So they are never going to get paid, never going to understand. So now I throw this question to you. So what does this story tell you and which w do you want to be? Thank you. It would be great to hear to your comments and let me know who which part of this story enticed you, intrigued you and made you feel that yes, there is something which I want to do today. So a food for thought and a motivation to get out of bed. Thank you for spending good amount of time to listen to me and I hope that I see your comments and your critics too. Goodbye. Thank you.
