304: Faith, Focus, and Fearlessness: The Coaching Mindset Reset - #GrowYourLife

Hey everyone. Thanks for listening to the Grow youw Life podcast. My name is Jeremiah Kakowski. Those of you I haven't met yet, I built multiple coaching businesses to eight figures over the last 22 years. And I'm here to help coaches, course creators and mentors scale their businesses beyond their wildest dreams. Today I'm going to talk about mindset. I'm talking about the brain work. I'm going to talk about the stuff that makes everything tick. It makes it all go together. I believe and I know that strategy alone is not what's going to produce the results for you, but it's about thinking in a way that's going to allow you to implement the strategy. Oftentimes I meet people, they have been learning the strategies for 10, 15 years and they still can't implement them because of certain limitations in their beliefs and mindset. Now, all I can share with you today is my own experiences, but I want to share with you just some recent experiences that have been really helping me a lot when it comes to that mindset. Number one, I want to mention there's actually a book that I really enjoy reading. It's called the Game of Life and how to Play it by Florence Scoville Shin. It's on YouTube. You can go check it out. Highly recommend it. And there's some concepts in that that have really been helping me a lot. One of the first is this is to not have any animosity towards another person. And we're going to dive right into it right here. Can I tell you, this is that there is in our lives so much energy that we put towards our thinking, our stinking thinking that keeps us from doing what we need to do. We need to build our business. But our brain is thinking about somebody who did us wrong or did us dirty or hurt us. Now again, we all have trauma, we all have pain, we all have things that have happened to us. But if you're ever consuming thought is how upset you are about other people's behavior that is going to limit you from being able to be able to reach your goals in your business. So, number one, I know I'm challenging some of you right here. You gotta get rid of that animosity, I think, towards other people because we end up then being energetically tied to those people. What I mean by that is not in some like woo woo, new age way, but rather our energy is literally just going towards this other person trying to resolve something that is probably never going to be resolved because we're focusing on the wrong stuff. Focus on yourself, focus on what you can do, and focus on how you can adjust and change your life. Now, the other thing is this, is that oftentimes we have to realize that the life that we are experiencing, we are choosing. And this is another toughie because let's say that you don't like what you're experiencing in your life right now. What I want you to realize is that you have one life. And the life you have right now is your life. Everything that's going on in your life right now, I want you to start choosing it. Meaning I have chosen this life and, and I have chosen to do my very best to make it the best life that's possible. No matter what situation is going on right now. What this does is this allows you to take ownership over your present situation to where you're not avoiding looking at it. I was doing this myself and gosh, it doesn't work at all. When we are avoiding looking at our situations, when we are avoiding shining a light on what's really going on beneath the surface. Because we don't like certain things that are going on, we're not looking at certain things there. We're avoiding talking about certain things, we're avoiding taking a look at. Those things could be related to your health, could be related to your finances, could be related to your relationships. And those are kind of the big three right there that I think a lot of times we avoid looking at out of embarrassment or fear. Whatever you avoid looking at is always going to remain the same. Whatever you shine, focus on will start to improve. Now the next part is having a vision for the life that you want. I'm not talking about the kind of money you want to make, but having a vision for the experience of the life that you want to, where you can feel it before it starts to happen. If you can feel it, you can create it. Every single thing that exists on planet Earth right now was felt by another person at some moment in time. They saw it, they had a vision for it, and they created it. And you can do the same exact thing yourself. The way that you create in your life, in your business, is by having a vision for that life and business that you want. And things ebb and flow, things change. That's why going back to choosing your life means you're also choosing the ebb and flow. Oftentimes for us to grow, things are not going to be consistent. We crave consistency. And from what I understand, I think women crave consistency a bit more than men do. Overall, I think men Sometimes have a tendency to more thrive in chaos a little bit more than women. I think that's just a common thing that we all know. It's kind of how we're wired. But I found that oftentimes consistent feels safe, and we crave it and we want to be consistent. That's why we have routines. But oftentimes, for us to grow to the next level in our life, we have to shake some things up. We're going to have to be able to step into those uncomfortable feelings. And that takes me to the next. Part of what I wanted to share with you is I want you to feel three things. Number one, confident. Number one, unstoppable. And number three, number three, Number one. Number two, unstoppable. Number three, fully safe. And those three words, confident, unstoppable, and safe. When you combine those three together, it's incredible. I want you to take. Imagine right now that you had all the support in the world that you could ever want. I want you to imagine that you have everything that you need to accomplish every goal that you have. And maybe you've never even thought about what that would feel like. I want you to start feeling that inside of your nervous system, the calm, the peace, meditating on having all the support that you need, having all the wisdom that you need, knowing how to do everything that you need to do, even if in your present reality doesn't feel that way. Thinking on these things is going to help you start to solve problems. Today we have so much at our disposal with artificial intelligence to be able to solve problems, to be able to answer questions that we really do have all the support that we need. And if you're in my wealthy coach Academy program and you're a member of that, you have support from me to work with me, where I'm going to show you exactly what to do in your business, and I'm going to come alongside you to make sure that you succeed. That's my mission. That's why I do what I do. That's how I help people every single day is inside of that wealthy coach Academy program. So the process that I want to take you through is this. I want you to imagine two things. Number one, I believe in God and I believe that we are all carriers of divine energy. We are carriers of God's essence, God's presence. And so what ends up happening, though, sometimes we forget that. I can forget it for months on end. Total vulnerable moment here when my wife gave birth, the moment where I needed to be carrier, a carrier of God's presence. I feel like I walked away from that just a little bit and tried to do it all in my own strength. And everything in my life started to suffer because of it. Now I'm like, okay, I get it now. And it's about, what are we filling ourselves up with, too? It's a big part of that. What messages are we filling ourselves up with? But I want you to always remember you've got to do these two things. And this is. This is going to lead you to breakthrough in your mindset. Remember who you are from the perspective of how God sees you, okay? And again, maybe you call it Holy Spirit or Source or something that like. Like that, okay, Higher power. I believe in God and I believe that. I also do believe, though, that it works if you believe in something. So I know that. But what I've chosen is Jesus, the God of Bible. And so with that, I find that believing that I'm a carrier of his presence everywhere that I go, that's not in a pompous, arrogant way. Like, I'm better than everybody because I got God in me and I am God manifesting, right? But, like, I can have the unstoppable, unshakable confidence that I am a carrier of God's presence. And that's huge. Okay? Now number two is feelings of safety. Feeling that I am safe to walk that out and that I am safe to feel the hard things in my life, that I am safe to go into scary situations and do tough stuff. And I'll tell you, when you combine these two things together, being the carrier of a divine presence, combined with total, absolute belief in your safety in all situations, when it comes to your business, when it comes to your life. Now, of course, we use wisdom. You know, I'm not going to go put myself into situations that are physically dangerous for me. But I'll tell you this, I got friends who have done that. And I'll tell you, they inspire me. Their stories got my friend Georgian Ban off. He actually went down, ministered, played music, hung out with families at the border of Israel and Gaza. I mean, like, what scary place, right? I don't want to be there right now. It's a scary place. And gosh, it's so hard on both sides of that. But he was able to go and love on the people down there because that's really, I think, what God's spirit is. It's loving on people. And so he's one of the most confident, fearless people that I know. I mean, gosh, so I'm glad I'M be a friend with him. So I'm glad that he's one of my friends. But in that, like, he was telling me that story and I'm like, man, I get it. Because he felt safe in that moment. To go do something that terrifies most people and that's what allows us to accomplish great things, is we feel absolute safety to do the tough stuff. And oftentimes it comes from that. Realizing that you are not separate from God, that God is in you and a part of you, and that you are a part of part of him, part of God. Believing that, and then telling yourself, I am safe, and believing that you are safe, even if a situation is causing you anxiety, telling yourself, I'm safe to feel this anxiety, it's okay. It's not going to cause me the problems it has in the past. And I'm okay to move forward in the situation because I have all the support that I need from heaven and here on Earth. And when you can tell yourself that, you become unstoppable, unshakable, confident, and safe to do incredible things. And then what ends up happening is a lot of our procrastination that we've been dealing with, a lot of the things that we've been putting off in our life, we're no longer putting them off because we feel safe to go do them, because we feel inspired to go do them. Certain things, I'll tell you when I look like, tapped into this, what I just shared with you, the combination of, okay, God's presence and safety to fully feel what's going on inside of me, to be able to go into situations that maybe previously scared me or made me had take, take some pause and might be afraid. As soon as I started telling myself I'm safe, that I'm walking in my divine creation from heaven, I literally started getting inspired to do certain things. And I started seeing things even come together in my life. Prayers started to become answered that I felt like were never going to be answered. Hope started feeling like a superpower, because every time I would hope for something, it would start to happen. And it came from that place of I feel safe to receive those things now. Yeah, you got to go to work. But the work becomes easy, the work becomes fun. The drudgery of doing the work no longer feels like a dread. And it's something that we can all do. So that's what I just want to encourage you, is remember those things. I love some of Dr. Joe Dispenza. Joe Dispenza's teaching on this he talks about this is that if you can no longer see yourself as separate from God, or he calls it Source, and you become no longer a person, you're no longer attached to time. You're no longer in a space like in your mind. You visualize yourself that you are just, always is, was, has been divine. You end up then tapping into what's in quantum physics. And it literally can shift atmospheres, the world around you. You are literally shaping the world around you through that. And I never understood how that would happen. There's actually proven science behind this, that we influence the spaces in the world around us by how we walk, operate and believe and live from that place. That's what a lot of his teaching is about, is being able to not just visualize, but then also how do we shift things in our lives. I believe that no matter what situation you're in right now, relationally, financially, you can shift things. You might need to re listen to this episode again. I think there's a lot of nuggets in here that will help you. I've given you a couple of different resources. I mentioned at the beginning the book how the Game of Life and how to Play it by Francis Scoville. Shin life changing book. And then some of Dr. Joe Dispenza's videos. Like those are great place to start on YouTube to maybe do this journey for yourself. I believe that you can live an incredible life greater than you've ever imagined. And I'd love to see the results of that. I'd love to have you in my Wealthy Coach Academy program where we are helping mentors and coaches become the wealthiest that they possibly could become. You could be next. Grow your life, everybody, and we'll talk soon. Have a good one.