A pastor tells unmarried Christians that premarital sex is sin and demands they stop or end the relationship. He warns that continuing risks your soul and destiny with God, and says the Holy Spirit is already convicting you.
If you're in a romantic relationship and you are not married, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, not married, there should be no sexual activity. That is sin. It is wrong. There's no excuse for it, biblically speaking. And if you're claiming to be a Christian and you are intentionally living this lifestyle of sin, there's something very wrong there. And so you have to ask yourself, does this person actually intend on marrying you, or are they just pretending to be committed so they can get sexual gratification out of you. Because what needs to happen is there has to be this deep repentance. Either you need to draw a line and stop the sexual sin, or you need to cut off that relationship. I'm serious. Now, now, when you hear this, there's going to be this debate in your mind, this back and forth. Well, maybe, you know, if we just work through this or we make it to marriage or— there's all these compromises you're going to be trying to allow yourself to make. There's all these negotiations we have with God. And here's the reality. If that's what you're doing internally right now, that's just proof to you that the Holy Spirit The Holy Spirit's already spoken to you. And so either you cease the sexual sin and you both agree to that, draw that line and stop, or you have to cut that relationship off for the sake of your soul, for the sake of your future, for the sake of your destiny in God. You need to recalibrate immediately.
