Spiritual Manipulation

A pastor warns that some church leaders weaponize the concept of idolatry to control congregants, labeling family time or personal priorities as sin to enforce loyalty to their programs. True devotion belongs to Jesus and the Holy Spirit, not to a human leader or ministry.
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I'm gonna be very honest with you here. There are pastors and leaders in the world today who will twist, abuse, and warp this concept of idolatry in their favor. Let me explain. They may say to you, and this is just one example, try to see the principle, not just the specific example. They may say to you, well, why weren't you at prayer on Saturday morning at 7:00 AM? And you may say, Pastor, I always go to prayer on Saturday morning at 7:00 AM. Well, you know, My mother was in town and I hardly see her, so I thought I would just take the morning to spend some time with her. And the pastor may say to you, that's idolatry, you're putting your mom before God now. Now wait a minute, think about this. Is idolatry putting things before God, or is idolatry putting things before ministry programs that a man implemented and wants to try to encourage you to be a part of? And pastors and leaders We use this concept to hang it over the heads of the people, beat them down into submission to where they can overwork them, exhaust them, and consume all their time and resources so they give nothing else to anything else. You don't measure your devotion to God by how devoted you are to a man's program and schedule. You measure how devoted you are to God by your obedience to what the Holy Spirit speaks to your heart and what the Word of God commands you to do, plain and simple. But some will take your devotion to Jesus, twist it, warp it, and make it seem like it's actually a devotion to them. Now, this is where I need to balance this. I'm not saying that there's never a time for sacrifice. There is a time for sacrifice. But you have to remember that sometimes people will use things like that, twist it, and Really, they beat down well-meaning people such as yourself to try to get you to do that. And so watch for that very subtle distinction where they get you to think devotion to Jesus is devotion to them. Devotion to Jesus is devotion to their one church, their one ministry. No other ministry has it. No other church has it. No other leader has it. They're the only ones with the real thing. And anywhere else you serve is not going to count as service to God. That is a warping, a twisting. That is cult-like thinking. Well, people have to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit. Again, balance. I'm not saying never devotion. I'm just saying that watch for that subtle warping of it.










