How Do I Stop My Tossing and Turning and Get a More Restful Night’s Sleep?
15 Dec 2025 · 6 min
This is a podcast episode of "Ask the Health Expert" hosted by JJ Virgin (four-time NYT bestselling author, celebrity nutrition expert). The episode opens with multiple sponsor reads (Wayfair, Earth Breeze, Buffalo Trace, Monarch, University of Phoenix) and then addresses a listener question from Claire about getting more restful sleep and reducing tossing and turning. Sleep expert Dr. Peter Martoni ("Dr. Sleepwright") advises starting sleep in a neutral supine position (lying on the back with arms at sides, legs extended, pillow supporting the neck) to distribute weight, reduce pressure on shoulders/hips, and decrease nocturnal repositioning. Other notable claims in the episode: Buffalo Trace bourbon is 90 proof (45% ABV); Wayfair offers free shipping over $35; Earth Breeze promoted as laundry-detergent-sheet option with up to 40% off first order; Monarch billed as Wall Street Journal's best budgeting app of 2025 and offers 50% off first year with code "virgin".
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Learn more at buffalotracedistillery.com Please drink responsibly. How do I stop my tossing and turning and get a more restful night's sleep? This is JJ Virgin, four time New York Times bestselling author, celebrity nutrition expert, and Fitness hall of Famer. I've been on a lifelong quest for answers to the toughest health question and now I'm sharing what I found with you. Welcome to Ask the Health Expert. Claire sent an email in and asked I get four to five hours a night waking a number of times to shift my body. How do I stop my tossing and turning and get a more restful night's sleep? Hey, it's JJ and I've got the sleep expert, Dr. Peter Martoni with me to answer this question. Now, he's known as Dr. Sleepwright, but when he's not sleeping, he's out having adventures. Now, you might say he's a bit of an extremist. He skydived regularly, mountain bikes, and has literally rock climbed all over the world. He'll be right back to answer this question. Hey JJ Virgin here. Okay, real talk. So often the holidays sneak up on me, travel, gifts, hosting, you know, all the things and suddenly it's like, wait, who spent what and where? And I know I'm not the only one who's looked at a bill in January and thought, wow, that escalated quickly. If you want to keep your finances under control this holiday season, you need to be using Monarch. It's rated the Wall Street Journal's best budgeting app of 2025. Monarch is the all in one personal finance tool that brings your entire financial life together in one clean interface on your laptop or on your phone. Monarch lets you link everything and gives you real time visibility so you're not shocked later. Right now, I've been checking the holiday spending category so I don't accidentally start the new year with that dreaded debt hangover. And honestly, just seeing everything laid out is already helping me stay more aware. This season, Monarch does the heavy lifting. It links your accounts in minutes, gives you smart categorization and super clear visuals. Yes, that end of year reset could be a real goal this time. Don't let financial opportunities slip through the cracks. Use the code virginonarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. That's 50% off your first year@monarch.com with the code virgin. Saving on your education should be a right, not a competition. At University of Phoenix, you'll get the best scholarship or savings you qualify for. Simple as that. Explore scholarship options at University of Phoenix.
Okay, how do you wake up and not toss in turn? That is one of the most common questions that I get, so you have to begin with the end in mind. Let me explain. I often ask my patients, how long can you lie on the couch on your side and watch tv? They'll say, well, I mean, maybe I can stay in that position for 10 minutes, 15 minutes? 20 minutes? Well, you are correct because the reason we toss and turn is because our body's in pain. So when you sleep on your side, your body can only stay in that position for a certain period of time. And you are not beginning with the end in mind. You're basically setting yourself up to toss and turn all night long because your body is going to be uncomfortable. You're going to end up with shoulder pain, you'll end up with hip pain. And our body is a product of what we do on a ritualistic basis. So you want to start with the end in mind. You want to start in a neutral sleeping position that's lying on your back with your arms down by your side, your legs out, the end of the covers and a pillow supporting your neck, not your head. And then what you end up doing is you're distributing your body weight over the greatest surface area. And by doing that, your body, you're going to be able to fall asleep. You'll be able to stay asleep, and then you'll also be able to wake up well rested because you won't toss in turn all night long. Try it. It takes some getting used to because most of us are side sleepers. But once you start to sleep on your back in that neutral sleeping position, you'll end up waking up well rested and stop tossing and turning.
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