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So I grew up near Berkeley, California, and that happens to be just a little short drive away from the famous California wine country. And here's what's awesome. When I was growing up, wine tasting there was free all these amazing wineries and I fell in love with wine. It was pretty easy to do. Wine has always been a big part of my life. I mean, I really couldn't imagine going to a nice dinner or a great party without it. Fast forward. I meet my husband Tim, and we fell into a little bit of a rut. The way we would kind of set the, oh, we're done with work is we would go to our big wine cooler and we'd pull out a bottle of wine. First you're like, oh, we'll each have a glass, we'll have another glass. And then pretty much every night we're having a bottle of wine. And so we decided a few months ago that we were going to break up, at least temporarily with, you know, one of my closest friends, Cabernet. And I'll kind of tell you what happened from that is pretty telling. Overnight, my sleep improved. I mean, dramatically improved. I track every night. I track with my Oura ring and my apple watch. But what I immediately saw when I pulled the alcohol out just one night was that my deep sleep and my HRV improved. And then after a few weeks, this little bit of belly bloat that always bugged me, you know, and I'm like lean and I'm like, what is that? And that's gone two pounds gone. The other cool thing is I've been wearing a cgm, a Nutrisense cgm. And I watch my CGM numbers. And I also noticed I was always having like a 90 morning fasting blood sugar, which is, you know, fine. But it's weird for me, I should be more in the 70, 80. And now it is. And then there's just better energy throughout the day, no little headache periodically. And so I said I was breaking up temporarily. And my decision from this little experiment is that wine for me is a great friend who I love to hang out with now and then, but I don't really want them moving in. So I say this. If you've been thinking about trying dry January, sober October, whatever those things are, or quitting for good, let's just unpack all of it. The good, the Bad, the ugly. So you can make the best decision for you, the best decision in terms of, like your weight loss, your energy, your overall health. Health. So first up, is alcohol healthy? Bottom line is your body can't use or store alcohol. Your body perceives alcohol as a potential toxin. So it's going to prioritize processing alcohol before carbs or fats or protein. In other words, everything else. All the macronutrients are going to take a back seat when you drink alcohol. And what else takes a back seat? Burning fat. Burning. You've heard of fatty liver and fatty liver is the buildup of fat in your liver. And that happens because again, your body is prioritizing burning alcohol. This can be the same with fructose. You've heard of non alcoholic fatty liver disease, nafld. Alcohol is a toxin. What is toxic about alcohol? It's really the way it's metabolized. So your body uses an enzyme called ADH to help your body break down alcohol. When alcohol is broken down, a toxic substance called acetaldehyde is made. This is a very bad substance. It can be super dangerous, can even cause cancer. So your body wants to get rid of this stat, right? So your body then turns acetaldehyde into something called acetate that is dangerous. And then acetate is turned into things that are easy for your body to get rid of, like water and carbon dioxide. Now, if your ADH enzyme works quickly and the rest of your detox pathways can't catch up, you've felt what this feels like. It's a hangover. It's headaches, it's fast heart rate, it's memory lapse. And then there's the chronic risks of I'm just drinking too much all the time. And they are scary. And there's a lot of them. High blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, liver disease, digestive problems, different kinds of cancers like breast and mouth and throat and esophagus and voice box and liver and colon and rectum. A weak immune system. When you're always getting sick, you have challenge with learning and memory, mood disorders and depression and anxiety and social problems, alcohol use disorders, alcohol dependence. So heavy is when you're averaging more than seven drinks a week for a woman or more than 14 for a man. Alcohol is also estrogenic. So alcohol, and it's one of the reasons, of course, that there's higher risk of breast cancer, and that's a, that is a well established one, is because alcohol can change how you metabolism, estrogen. Now when we're looking at this in These higher estrogen levels in women who drink, it's not the good estrogen. Remember, we have three different types of estrogen, and what you want to avoid is high levels of estrone because that can increase your risk of breast cancer. Now, more than one alcoholic drink per day in women can increase testosterone and estrogens. Remember, we're really looking at that Estrone, the bad one, that can increase and cause estrogen dominance. The next one that drives me crazy, because it's why I wrote the virgin diet is alcohol can damage your gut, and it can do two different things to damage your gut. Number one, it can disrupt your gut microbiome. All the trillions of bacteria in your gut can lead to dysbiosis or imbalances because all of a sudden you might have too many bad guys, right? You are killing off the good guys, or you don't have the diversity that you need to have. But the other thing that it can do that I wrote the virgin diet about is it can lead to leaky gut. Just a single heavy episode of drinking can damage the mucous cells in the, in the gut and increase inflammation and increase gut permeability. But if you've done this, you know exactly what I'm talking about, is what alcohol can do to your sleep. And I just love to hear from you comment below on what you've noticed with your sleep if you drink, because I know what I've noticed. So here's the deal. We know alcohol can make you sleepy. It's a central nervous system depressant. So you might go, gosh, I sleep so much. I fall asleep so much easier when I have a glass of wine. And you're right, you do. You just don't stay asleep. Well, because even a drink or two means you spend less time in the REM stage of deep sleep. And what does that mean? That means you might have spent the same amount of time in bed, but you didn't get that deep sleep that you need to feel refreshed. Then if you ever drank and woke up at like 2 in the morning, that is the hypoglycemia. That happens because remember, alcohol is being metabolized first, so then it's blunting the liver's ability to release glucose into the bloodstream. And it can also stimulate the release of insulin, which can also cause a drop in blood sugar levels. Then all of a sudden you're waking up at like 2 in the morning and you're sweaty and you're shaky and you cannot. You're so tired, but you can't fall back asleep. So then if you're using alcohol chronically, it just then leads to insomnia symptoms and could even give you things like sleep apnea. Now, let's talk weight. Let's talk fat burning. Because remember when I talked a little earlier about how alcohols metabolize before? Protein, fat and carbs, everything, including fat. Metabolism moves to the back of the line when you drink. Your liver's top priority is to clear that alcohol, right? Because it senses it as a toxin. Now, depending on how much you drink and your overall tolerance, this is going to make you crazy. Alcohol can shut down fat burning for anywhere from 12 to 36 hours after you drink it. Okay, so now couple that you're now not able to burn fat. And have you noticed that when you drink, you're a little hungrier? And it's not for salmon and brussels sprouts. We know that alcohol could reduce your willpower and make you want to eat things that you wouldn't normally touch. And you're eating more, you're eating more often. You're making choices that you're like, oh, well, heck, I'll just have the popcorn, the chips, the sugar, the stuff. Because it's never. I'm just going to have the. More broccoli, right? And then couple that with, you know, I'm having a cosmo, I'm having an appletini. I'm having some kind of alcohol mixed with sugar. And again, now you've got the sugar coming in, but your body is not focused on that because it's got to burn off that alcohol first. And the alcohol can only be metabolized. It's very slow. Your liver can only metabolize about an ounce of alcohol per hour. And there are some benefits to alcohol. There are. So some research shows that moderate alcohol use. What is moderate? I keep talking about this. That's up to one drink a day for a woman, up to two drinks a day for men. Up to not over. May reduce your risk of heart disease.

May.

Ischemic stroke. An ischemic stroke, what is that? That's when the arteries to your brain become narrowed or blocks, and that then is going to cause some severely reduced blood flow, may reduce diabetes. So you want to drink occasionally and you still want to lose weight or maintain your weight. Here are a couple things to consider. Healthy alcohol intake. No more than one drink a day for women, two drinks for men. Now, here's what's important. That does not mean that you go, you know what I'm going to do? I'm just going to store that up for Saturday. Okay, so let's talk about like how you get yourself classified a light drinker. And this is looking over the last year. A light drinker is like you've had 12 drinks the past year. You have three drinks or less per week. And that's the average over the year, moderate drinker, three to seven drinks per week for women, three to 14 drinks a week for men. And then heavy drinkers are over that. More than seven drinks for women per week, more than 14 drinks for men. But here's what's important. Size matters. So you gotta actually know your sizes here. Beer, that's 12 fluid ounces. Wines, five fluid ounces. And you've got to look at the alcohol content there, of course. And distilled spirits, 80 proof, one and a half fluid ounces. Now here's the deal with wine. Gosh, one of my favorite relationships, One of the greatest educators on wine for me is Todd White of dry farm wine. And I remember when he sat me down and taught me about the alcohol in the United States, the wine in the United States, and what they were allowed to do because you know, things like sulfites that they will add to wine as a preservative. But turns out in the United States, wine producers can legally, and by the way, they do not have to tell you, use 76 different FDA approved additives without disclosing any of them on the bottle. And they are mega purple coloring, dye, fish bladders, I don't get it. Sulfur dioxide, dimethyl dicarbonate, so all sorts of stuff. And I still remember when I sat down with Todd, he explained all this to me and I'm like, are you kidding me? And I started using just dry farm wine. And then I went and had regular US wine. And the difference, like all those symptoms I told you about felt like crap. So some of that stuff could be your body having to detoxify. Not just the alcohol, but all the other garbage they added into the alcohol. And then you look at things like mixed drinks where then you have the alcohol and then you add in fructose so you got the fructose alcohol, Bam, one, two punch whammy on your liver. And then of course I just have to do a shout out. If you are a beer drinker, I don't know. I think there's a reason that we have beer bellies. I think, I think. But at least make sure you're getting gluten free. So you're probably wondering, well, if I am going to drink what Should I drink? I believe that your best bet is totally dry farm wine. I know it sounds like an advertisement for dry farm wines. I just love, I love Todd and David, but I think they're doing such an important information campaign out there and so you want to have they do lab tested wine. So what are you looking for? Dry, high quality, no, no sugar added, no toxic additives, lower alcohol. So somewhere, you know, Highest would be 12.5% Organic biodynamic testing again or farming lab tested. Right. So look for those wines that are the clean wines. And then remember what I just said about light, moderate and heavy. So I would say I don't think that we should be drinking every single day. I think it's something that you work into, having a nice dinner or having friends over and use it in those ways. I don't think if you're drinking every single day, I think you're really setting yourself up for some, some challenges because again, your liver's primary goal is to break down and eliminate alcohol first. So we gotta be super careful there because if you're trying to burn fat, it's taking a back seat, right? All the energy from your food and your drink goes towards digesting alcohol instead of being used for energy. This is why, like if you're trying to lose weight, yeah, you know, maybe once a week. But if you're trying to lose weight, you think you're going to have wine every single night. I don't think that's going to be the best, the best choice for you. Now, I only briefly touched on liver health in this video, but liver, holy smokes. I mean, obviously it's a huge thing here, but there's over 500 jobs to do in the body, so you got to make sure you're treating it nicely and that it's working optimally so you can stay on track towards your health and weight loss goals. So next up, watch this video on what to eat and when to eat and why to support your liver, not only to process alcohol effectively, but to avoid sabotaging all the other hard work you're doing.

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