The ULTIMATE Guide to Healthy Eating for Women Over 40
15 Dec 2025 · 20 min
Podcast episode by JJ Virgin (The Well Beyond 40 series) focused on healthy eating and lifestyle strategies for women over 40. The episode mixes sponsor ad reads (Wayfair, Earth Breeze, Corona, Monarch, McAfee) with practical nutrition guidance: recommending isoflavone-rich foods (tahini, hummus, flaxseeds, garlic) for hormonal balance and bone/heart/skin health; emphasizing increased clean, lean protein to combat age-related anabolic resistance (protein timing, satiety, muscle/bone/brain benefits) and promoting a free 7-day Eat Protein Burst challenge; advising on carbohydrate choices to support adrenal/cortisol balance and sleep (non-starchy vegetables, berries, slow carbs like sweet potato, wild rice); highlighting fiber, prebiotics, probiotics and fermented foods for gut health, regularity, blood sugar and cardiovascular benefits; encouraging collagen/bone broth protein for skin, joint and gut support; and recommending polyphenol-rich, colorful plant foods to support methylation, antioxidant and anti-inflammatory benefits. Episode closes with CTAs to JJ Virgin resources and a medical disclaimer.
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I'm JJ Virgin, PhD dropout. Sorry, mom turned four time New York Times bestselling author.
Yes, I'm a Certified Nutrition Specialist, Fitness.
Hall of Famer, and I speak at health conferences and trainings around the globe. But I'm driven by my insatiable curiosity and love of science to keep asking questions, digging for answers, and sharing the information I uncover with as many people as I can. And that's why I created the well Beyond 40 podcast to synthesize and simplify the science of health into actionable strategies.
To help you thrive.
In each episode, we'll talk about what's working in the world of wellness, from personalized nutrition and healing your metabolism to to healthy aging and prescriptive fitness. Join me on the journey to better health so you can love how you look and feel right now and have the energy to play full out at 100. Hey jj, Virgin here. Okay, real talk. So often the holidays sneak up on me, travel, gifts, hosting all the things and suddenly it's like, wait, who spent what and where? And I know I'm not the only one who's looked at a bill in January and thought, wow, that escalated quickly. If you want to keep your finances under control this holiday season, you need to be using Monarch. It's rated the Wall Street Journal's best budgeting app of 2025. Monarch is the all in one personal finance tool that brings your entire financial life together in one clean interface. On your laptop or on your phone. Monarch lets you link everything and gives you real time visibility so you're not shocked later. Right now, I've been checking the holiday spending category so I don't accidentally start the new year with that dreaded debt hangover. And honestly, just seeing everything laid out is already helping me stay more aware. This season, Monarch does the heavy lifting. It links your accounts in minutes, gives you smart categorization and super clear visuals. Yes, that end of year reset could be a real goal. This time. Don't let financial opportunity slip through the cracks. Use the code virginonarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. That's 50% off your first year@monarch.com with the code Virgin.
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You to suspicious texts, emails and deep fake videos. Learn more@mcafee.com online protection newsflash. Your body seems to change the rules right around 40, so you just can't eat the way you used to and expect to get the same results today. I'm going to spill the secrets of how you can outsmart the hands of times and reclaim that energy and body you had in your 20s and 30s by eating for what your body needs now in 40 and beyond. So you probably heard of soy because of the phytoestrogens, but turns out there's some better isoflavone rich foods. And when I'm thinking of those specifically, I'm going to call out tahini, which is made with, of course, chickpeas and sesame seeds are great sources, so hummus is another one. Flaxseeds and garlic. These are phytoestrogens that can help balance the hormonal fluctuations that start to happen. They can even start in your 30s, but for sure now they're going on in 40 plus. It can also potentially alleviate symptoms associated with menopause like hot flashes and mood swings. And these isoflavones may have a protective effect on bone density, which is of course really important for preventing osteoporosis and fractures. Plus, consumption of isoflavone rich foods can help support heart health and they may help lower LDL cholesterol levels and reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease. Plus, isoflavones have antioxidant properties that can contribute to healthier skin by protecting it from oxidative damage. And some research suggests that isoplavones may be able to impact cognitive function and memory and also have a protective effect on breast health, which of course is particularly relevant for women in your 40s who are concerned about breast health and cancer risk. Plus, these are great healthy foods overall to be incorporating into your diet. Next up, another one I want to make sure you're incorporating into your diet every single day is clean, lean, quality protein. And that is because as we age we have this phenomenon that happens called Anabolic resistance, which means as we age, it is harder for us to go through muscle protein synthesis. We are going to need more protein, not less, as we age. Now, protein supports muscle maintenance, it supports strength and functionality. All these things that we have to stay active and to have an independent life. Plus, protein is the most thermic food macronutrient there is. So protein rich foods take about 25% of the calories when you eat them just to be, just to digest and metabolize them. Contrast that with carbohydrates, which is like 5 to 10%, and fat, which is negligible. So here's a great metabolic boost. If all you did was take the same amount of calories and, and move some of the calories away from carbs or fat and put them into protein, that can help you start to lose body fat and also improve not just your metabolism, but also your satiety and your satisfaction. Next up, protein's really important for bone health. And protein can help regulate hormones related to muscle development, fat metabolism and overall vitality. Plus, of course, we know that protein is the most satiating macronutrient. And what's going to really blow it for you on your diet? Being hungry.
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It also goes beyond satiety because there's satiety. And we know that we've got a couple different hormones being regulated by protein. One of them is ghrelin, one of them cck. These things that will tell your body when you feel full and you don't need to eat anymore. But beyond that, it also impacts your satisfaction. What I've seen dramatically with people who are going through my seven day eat protein burst free challenge is the big things they tell me is they're not hungry and they don't have cravings. And I think probably some of that is, and this is a hypothesis, is that protein helps us make our neurotransmitters, which then help us control our cravings. And of course, if you've controlled your hunger and your cravings, it is going to be way easier for you to manage your body composition and make better food choices. And by the way, the studies show that people who eat protein first, that is my mantra, actually make better protein choice choices. Plus, of course, protein supports the maintenance and repair of joint tissue, which can help with joint pain and joint stability and overall reduction in the risk of injuries. We also know that protein intake is essential for brain health because it's going to provide the necessary amino acids for neurotransmitter production, which can impact both your cognitive Function and your memory. Now, in my seven day Eat Protein Burst challenge, I show you how easy it is to increase your protein intake to where you need it to be. And that's why it comes with a calculator, so you can figure out how much protein you need. Plus, I'm going to give you plenty of recipes to help you get started. And best of all, this is free. You can get this@jjvirgin.com seven day and that's the number seven. Now, next up are carbs. Now, first off, I have to say that all carbs are not created equal because white bread's a carb and broccoli is a carb. So obviously these are not the same. But we want to start to think about carbs because of what they can do for your adrenal health, for your cortisol, for your sleep. In fact, one of my buddies, Dr. Alan Christensen, says if you eat slow carbs at dinner, it will help lower cortisol so you can get that sleep so that you can then repair from all the wear and tear of the day. He talks about this in his adrenal reset diet. So we want to eat carbs, but what I talk about in my sugar impact diet is again, all carbs are not created equal. Remember, all carbohydrates turn to sugar except for fiber. It's just a matter of whether we're making them slowly, making that sugar slowly from the food we're eating, or if we're mainlining it. Let's say like we're eating skittles or a muffin or something like that. So we really want to look at eating carbs as close to nature as possible that has a lot of fiber. So that would be things like, say, a sweet potato that has vitamin C and magnesium that can help regulate cortisol levels. Now remember, I'm talking cortisol here because I find with a lot of us who are stressed or have any adrenal issues, making sure that we get in our carbohydrates first from non starchy vegetables, then from a little bit 1, 2 servings of fruit, especially berries, and then a little bit of slow, low carbs, that we just do better that it helps regulate our cortisol levels. Because remember, if you've got elevated cortisol, which can happen due to stress, especially acute stress, it's going to disrupt your sleep patterns, which then can mess up, lead to, like, chronic sleep disturbances, which can then lead to insulin resistance when you have some healthy carbs in the diet. Again, deep green leaf eats Loads of non starchy vegetables, some berries, some purple sweet potatoes for the win, maybe some wild rice, some squashes, some legumes that is going to help you manage cortisol and promote a sense of calm and relaxation and help with better sleep, especially getting a serving or two in your evening meal. Let's dig into fiber. And really, when I think about fiber, I think of the prebiotics and probiotics and ferments and everything else that can help the gut. So fiber first. Fiber can act like, like a prebiotic. And a prebiotic is a non digestible fiber that can promote the growth and activity of beneficial gut bacteria. I look at prebiotics as the fuel, as a way to feed your gut microbiome. This provides essential nourishment for these little microbes in your gut so that you get this nice, balanced and diverse gut microbiome. Now let's talk probiotics, because I just mentioned having this great diverse gut microbiome. So one of the ways that you can help facilitate that is by getting in probiotics. Probiotics of course, help with healthy gut bacteria, diverse gut bacteria. And when you have a healthy gut, you've got better nutrient absorption. One of the places you can get probiotics is in fermented foods. And so fermented foods can be things like kimchi, real pickles, real sauerkraut, or yogurts. I find that to be the easiest way to do it. I wish I could say I love kimchi, but I've been playing around with different plant yogurts without added sugar and, and working on getting some in every single day. And again, that can really help with gut diversity. And you really want a big gut microbiome diversity. Now one of the other cool things that fiber does, and we're talking fiber, remember, there's a variety of different types of fiber, but specifically here, soluble and insoluble fiber can help support regular bowel movements and help you not have constipation, which is super important because remember, one of the ways we detoxify is through our stool. So we want to make sure that we are having poops we can be proud of and moving things along. Fiber is really important for blood sugar control. Fiber is super important for your weight management because it helps reduce hunger. In fact, when you eat fiber and protein together, it slows down stomach emptying, keeps graylings the breast. So that's fantastic. And it also can be good for cardiovascular health. In fact, high fiber diets are associated with a reduced risk of heart disease and, and when you have good fiber, it can help lower LDL cholesterol and raise HDL cholesterol. All right, now what about skin? Do a little shout out to my buddy, Dr. Kellyanne Produce, who wrote the bone broth diet and turned me on to all of the benefits of bone broth. Now I'm lazy. So when I discovered I could actually create a bone broth protein that would be rich in collagen and tastes like chocolate or vanilla, that works well for me. I do keep collagen in my fridge and I use it to cook with, especially if I'm making things like sauteed mushrooms or cauliflower rice. But I get my bone broth in every day by using my bone broth protein. And it's rich in collagen, which is super important for joint health, but also skin strength and elasticity. And what this collagen can do is help. Now, you bring in collagen, whether you're doing it from bone broth or bone broth shakes your body, breaks it apart, and then is going to use those building blocks to replenish collagen levels, which improves the firmness of your skin and helps reduce the visible signs of aging. And one of the other cool things with bone broth is it has anti inflammatory compounds that can help reduce, that helps soothe skin conditions, things like acne or eczema. And of course, there's a big gut skin connection. And we also know bone broth helps heal and seal the gut. So there's that benefit, too. I mean, there's so many benefits to bone broth. Beyond that. Bone broth has antioxidants, has vitamin C, selenium, and zinc, which can help protect skin cells from oxidative damage caused by free radicals. Now, if you want more tips for skin health over 40, and of course, who doesn't? I created my anti aging cheat sheet. I put it@jjvirgin.com Anti Aging and in there I have skincare recommendations. The best foods for great skin, what supplements can work, even mindfulness practices to help you turn back the clock from the inside out. Now, let's talk about polyphenol rich foods. Because part of what we need to talk about is in terms of healthy aging, is methylation. Methylation influences DNA regulation, repair and neurotransmitter balance. Its processes are like little switches that can affect how our genes and cells function when turned on or off. These switches can change how our bodies operate and even influence whether specific genes are active or not. So for women over 40, ensuring these switches work correctly can help maintain good health and reduce the risk of age related health problems. Supporting healthy methylation ensures these switches are in the correct positions to keep our bodies running well. Now as women age, these processes can become less efficient, potentially leading to a range of age related health issues. Good news though. Polyphenols. These are things found abundantly in things like beets and leafy greens like spinach and kale and collards play a crucial role in supporting the methylation processes in the body. Now, healthy methylation supports better brain function. It can support heart health by promoting healthy blood pressure, reduces LDL cholesterol levels and improves blood vessel function. Methylation is also involved in detoxifying harmful substances from the body. Now when you get good methylation support, which you can get by eating polyphenol rich foods, you enhance the body's ability to eliminate toxins and maintain overall health. These polyphenols are potent antioxidants that help combat oxidative stress and reduce the risk of DNA damage caused by free radicals. This antioxidant action is particularly beneficial as women age and helps to maintain the cellular integrity and reduce the risk of chronic disease. Plus bonus they're also anti inflammatory. So I want you to think here in terms of polyphenols. This is where you want to think about eating by the rainbow. All of those deep green leafies, all of those different bright colors, all the different berries and the different bright yellows that you're getting from the squashes. All of those things are going to give you a variety of different polyphenols that, as you can see, have a dramatic impact on your methylation. And as you can tell from all of this, diet is a major part of playing full out in your 40s and your 50s and your 60s and beyond. But it's also about what you're not doing too. Now I recently turned 60 and I've got a lot of life lessons to share. Watch this next video on what I left behind in the last decade for better longevity and the ability to play full out 70s, 80s and 90s and beyond.
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