Discover GENIUS Tips: How to Find Deep CONNECTIONS in Conversations – Tucker Max Insights

I did. All I do when I meet someone new is I have like sort of one goal in my head that is I want to find out what's interesting about them, right? And so essentially I just start asking questions and I just get them. Everyone loves to talk about themselves, right? And if you ask on this one topic and they're like, yeah, blah, blah, blah, okay, fine, another topic. And just, you know, almost small talk, essentially, right? So think of small talk as target acquisition. Once you find, just keep going top and top. Oh, and you always start most broadest things, small talk. You win. Small talk or small talk happens by starting with commonalities, right? Which is that I can explain this, but there's a deep mammalian biological reason we do this, but it's a longer speech. But so you start with weather, you know, region, country, state, social group. You're looking for commonalities, right? It's a way of establishing warmth and trust, whatever. So narrow that down until you find something that they are interested in that you are interested in, right? Any overlap, and then dive in, right? So with Joe, he's very interested in addict issues, all that sort of stuff. But I care a lot about connection, human connection. I'm not good at that. I had to work a lot at that. And like, really, at the end of the day, nothing else matters on earth. Us connecting with people we care about especially, right? And so out of issues overlap deeply with human connection issues, right. Once I found that, we found that topic, then the next hour was like intense and amazing. And find an overlap of what you like and dive in on that overlap of what they like and what you like or what you're interested in. That's how you connect. That's the beginning of connecting.