Kristin Bentley argues that wanting to look better shouldn't automatically mean you hate yourself. She lists common goals like clearer skin, weight loss, and Botox, and says you can genuinely like yourself and still want to change.
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Okay, I want to know if you agree with me on this. I think we need to normalize wanting to look better without hating how we look now. Because apparently, if you want better skin, you want to lose weight, you want to build some muscle, get Botox, or even fix your teeth and change your hair, someone immediately wants to tell you, oh, you must be insecure. But what if you just want to look your best? Can you want to change something about yourself and genuinely like yourself at the same time? Because I think you can, but I want to know what you think.