Lewis Howes says the main sign you're dating the right person is being able to argue without fearing the relationship will end. Partners are separate people with their own beliefs, not projections. Safe conflict actually creates chemistry and strengthens the bond.
It's knowing that an argument is not going to end your relationship. When you feel safe enough to argue with your partner, I would say that is a very good measure of a good relationship. Sure. That you know that that's not— it doesn't mean that it's going to blow up. It's an argument. And you know what? You're supposed to argue because you have to sometimes be very reminded of the fact that you are not in a relationship with a projection of your ideal. You are in a relationship with an autonomous person who has their own beliefs and their own mind And sometimes they're stubborn and sometimes you're stubborn. And that creates, that creates chemistry, by the way.
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