A Couple is Never Just 2 People! | Esther Perel

A couple lives in an ecosystem. A couple is never just a relationship of two. It's all the people that are in the bed with you that you're not even aware of, but it's also who is there to support you. And I think the loss of community is really a major piece of what makes it challenging to be healthy. Your partner cannot give you what the whole village or community should provide. Get the community. You need other people who think about you, who care about you, who pay attention to you, who compliment you, you know, the whole thing will seduce you, the whole thing, but it needs more than one.