Another One of The Most Important Red Flags to Look Out For When Entering a New Relationship...

What would you say are the three big flags that a man or a woman should look out for when they're entering a new dating relationship?

Unfortunately, I really hate to say this because we can't really control this, but your childhood. Unfortunately, your childhood creates an embedded kind of conflict between you and love. When we have a chaotic childhood, what we do is we create a core belief about ourselves that we're not worthy of love, we don't deserve love, or love is painful. and because that's a core belief, we go through life looking for somebody to validate that core belief. Now, if I meet somebody loving even, I will still try and create that cool belief and make love chaotic. So I, oh, I'll sabotage or do something. So unfortunately, you have to look at their childhood. Now, it doesn't mean if they've got a bad child, they're.

Written off, but.

If they haven't acknowledged the impact, you're gonna start the healing process. You're gonna be the punching bag.