Arguing is a GOOD Sign for Relationships | Jillian Turecki

It's knowing that an argument is not going to end your relationship. When you feel safe enough to argue with your partner, then you are. I would say that is a very good measure of a good relationship. Sure. That you know that. It doesn't mean that it's going to blow up. It's an argument. And you know what you're supposed to argue because you have to sometimes be very reminded of the fact that you are not in a relationship with a projection of your ideal. You are in a relationship with an autonomous person who has their own beliefs and their own mind. And sometimes they're stubborn, and sometimes you're stubborn. And that creates. That creates chemistry, by the way.