Ask THIS Before Entering a Relationship...

What should we really be asking ourselves before we start dating someone? How are my personal insecurities going to ruin this relationship? We go into a relationship almost blind to our own wounds and we surface in the relationship and we blame them for not providing the medication of a wound that existed before we met them. What I mean by that is say for example you grew up financially insecure and you meet a partner who's actually really nice to you but he might not be able to soothe all your financial insecurities. You immediately think he's not good enough. Or you go into a relationship not being able to communicate and then you meet somebody who else is not also communicating and you don't voice your concerns. Ask yourself, how are your insecurities going to ruin this relationship? And how do I create a buffer so that doesn't occur?