Lewis HowesYour Personal 24/7 Greatness Coach

Ask your friends THIS question!

14 Mar 2026 · 0 min

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A guest explains the question they wish people asked more: "Who are you now?" It cuts through past trauma, expectations, and assumptions to get at someone's actual current identity.

Is there anything you wish people would ask you more that they haven't asked you in this last year?
The one thing I think I wish people asked more is, who are you now? Who are you now with or without that trauma? Who are you just right now? Instead of having this big expectation or this theory, or this made-up version, or, you know, all these things is just, who are you now? Yeah, who are you?

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