Avoid These Relationship Cycles! | Sheleana Ayaina

If you look at people's relationship histories, myself included, there's a lot of chaos and us versus them and people becoming enemies in the end. And isn't it strange that we go out into the world looking for somebody to share love with, and then more often than not, we just hurt each other repeatedly, and then we blame each other, and then we go off and try to find somebody new, and we just keep repeating the cycle, and that's not love. that's not healthy love. That's just wounds repeating the cycle. What we have to realize is that often we are actually in relationship with a projection of the person who hurt us that we didn't heal with. Wow.