Avoiding Boundaries Will RUIN Your Relationships

Just because you're in a loving, beautiful relationship with someone doesn't mean you don't need to create a boundary with them. We did that with each other. You know, you said, I want to get married the next couple years. I want to start building a family in the next four years. Is that something you want? If it's not something I wanted, you'd have been like, okay, see you later. But if you would have said, well, maybe he'll change. Maybe he'll be open to it once he falls in love with me in a few months. And then four years comes and I haven't proposed, and we're not engaged and we're not married, and I'm not speaking about family. You would be resentful and frustrated. It's because I wasn't meeting expectation. Because you didn't set a boundary.