Be Good With Yourself FIRST! | Gary Vaynerchuk

But the only thing that is sustainable is when your relationship with yourself is so good, you can deal with the death of a parent, a partner, even the worst extreme, a child. Like people have things. My mom lost her mom at five. My dad lost his dad at 15. Those are game changing moments. How does one deal that they're in a good place? You know this about me. I love being nice. Of course I'm nice because I'm good with me. Of course, most people that aren't nice aren't nice because they're not good with themselves. So for me, this is why entrepreneurship has been so easy. I'm not scared to lose. Your capacity with losing has an incredible correlation to what you're going to achieve as an entrepreneur sustainably. Because when you're deeply insecure and it's not good, you equally might create massive success because you're using it as the makeup. If I put up the points on the board, everyone will think I'm good, even though I secretly don't think I'm good.