Being in a Relationship Mean FORGIVING! | Jillian Turecki

Being in a relationship means you have to know how to forgive. And forgive often, because oftentimes we will make mistakes with the person we love, and we didn't even realize that we were doing that. I mean, how many times have you hurt someone's feelings and that was not your intention? Most people enter couples therapy when it's too late, when it's probably not going to work out. Yeah, when there's just too many problems and too many things to unpack. I mean, yes, it can work, but if you can do this stuff preemptively, if it's huge, anything to prevent resentment, anything to foster honest conversations, you're going to win. Even if you end up breaking up, you're going to still win, because at least it won't be the kind of breakup that destroys you.