This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "Chemistry is OVERRATED!" created on April 12, 2024, discussing the concept of chemistry in relationships and how it can be misleading, advocating for spending time to truly know a person beyond initial chemical reactions.
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Chemistry is extremely overrated. It should be valued because I think it's important, but it's extremely overrated. What chemistry does, and this is why they say love is blind, is because it really gets in the front of your head, creates all these chemicals, and you're not able to see the person as who they really are. You're feeling these chemicals, and you think you like the person, but you're actually what you're liking is the chemical reaction that person is creating in you. You don't know this. How can you really like them or love them? So that's why I'm a firm believer in the advice that my parents always told me, which is, spend time getting to know the other person. And everything that comes your way is just information. You don't try to add to it. And also, you don't try to delete all the little things and little red flags that you're seeing.