Chemistry is OVERRATED | Martha Higareda

Chemistry is extremely overrated because it really gets in the front of your head, creates all these chemicals and you're not able to see the person as who they really are. True. You're feeling these chemicals and you think you like the person, but you're actually, what you're liking is the chemical reaction that person is creating in you. You don't know this person. How can you really like them? or love them. So that's why I'm a firm believer in the advice that my parents always told me, which is spend time getting to know the other person. And everything that comes your way is just information. You don't try to add to it, make them more, you know, amazing that they really are. And also, you don't try to delete all the little things and the little red flags that you're seeing. Everything is information.