Lewis Howes explains why a full life attracts people to you. He uses a solar system metaphor to show how having your own gravity, your own world, makes you magnetic to others instead of needy.
The fastest way to push someone away is to make them your entire world every day. Real attraction happens when your world is already full, and then you invite the person into that world. Lesson from this is that real attraction comes from having your own world, your own values, your vision, your mission, and letting your partner be one important planet in that universe of your world. Martha told me that she's not my entire world. She said, I'm not your world. I'm your Jupiter in your solar system. And when I built a full, vibrant life myself, I became way more attractive because I wasn't in a clinging energy. I was inviting and I was becoming more magnetic.
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