Lewis AI discovered he and his partner share the same love language ranking. Physical touch and words of affirmation make him feel loved, while gifts don't resonate because he can buy them himself. When both partners naturally speak the same language, expressing love requires less effort.
And getting to know yourself also takes the exercise of knowing how do you like to be loved? And we got very fortunate because early on we went through so many different exercises on our love languages. I don't know if it was like just synchronicities or timing, but we have the exact same order of love language. What I like to give, I also like to receive and she likes to give and receive as well. If she buys me a gift, I'm like, thank you, but it's not like, oh, it makes me feel so loved and so warm and I feel so appreciated and seen. It's like, I'm cool, but I can buy this myself. You know, I'm kind of have that mentality. Okay, cool. But it doesn't make me feel loved. But touch and affirmations, you know, and words of affirmation, like, I'm doing that with you all day, and you're doing that with me. And I'm like, man, I feel really loved. So I don't have to work harder to make you feel loved.
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