You can't fix your partner, and trying will wreck the relationship. Both people need to want to grow together as life changes. If one of you won't, the marriage will struggle.
Don't fix the person you're dating. It's not your job and you're not capable of it. And if you are dragging a boyfriend or a girlfriend to a level of life that they don't want to live at, what do you think marriage is going to look like? Oh, man. You used a perfect phrase, a growth mindset. Yes. Because I cannot change anyone. No. But we all have to change. as life changes. If that person does not come with a growth mindset themselves, oh, I'm in trouble. Ron.
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