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Every Relationship Has Been a Mirror | Jillian Turecki

22 Dec 2024 · 1 min

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Jillian Turecki argues that every relationship mirrors your inner relationship with yourself. When partnerships fail, they expose low self-worth or unresolved trauma. Without recognizing this pattern, you'll keep attracting the same unhealthy partners because you're unconsciously choosing people who echo your wounds.

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Every relationship we have ever had has been a mirror. Sometimes it reflects back to us where we've done a lot of work and it's lovely. Sometimes it reflects back to us how wonderful we are. And oftentimes in their past, if it hasn't worked out, it's going to reflect where our self-worth is, where our immaturity is, where our trauma is. Every relationship we've ever had will reflect back to us the relationship we have with ourselves, period, end of story. If one cannot actually accept that, They're just going to keep repeating patterns, guaranteed. It's not that all of them cheat, it's that you keep choosing cheaters. It's not that all of them are narcissists, it's that you're choosing the narcissists.