Lewis Howes argues we don't fear failure itself but fear looking like a failure to others. The real enemy is ego: worrying about judgment, disappointing people, and not living up to expectations. That's what actually blocks growth.
Failure is not the enemy your ego is. People don't fear failing. They fear looking like a failure. And there's a big difference there. They don't want other people to see them fail. They don't want other people to say, ah, I knew he couldn't do it. I knew she was going to make a mistake. She looked silly trying to do that thing. That didn't really work well for him. I can laugh about it with my friends now behind his back. People don't fear failing. They fear looking like a failure. They fear being seen as not enough. They fear the judgment of other people. They fear disappointing other people. They fear not living up to an image they created or some expectation that other people had on them. It's not failure that stops people from growing. It's ego.
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