Healthy Relationships Prioritize THIS

The most important thing within relationships is distinguishing between a person's thoughts or actions versus the person themselves. We often attach these things like cleanliness, organization, punctuality, the moral judgments. Somebody just like, leaves all their dirty dishes out everywhere, and we jump immediately to the judgment of the character of the person. It's like, wow, what a mess of a person. Without understanding that you can have different viewpoints, prioritizations, or perceptions of what is clean, what's not clean, what is on time, what's not on time. Love the sinner, hate the sin.