This is a YouTube video titled "How Judging Stops People From Opening Up" containing a monologue or talk recorded in May 2025. The speaker discusses the importance of being non-judgmental when seeking truthful information from a partner, emphasizing self-regulation to obtain intelligence for making informed decisions rather than reacting emotionally.
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If you want to know the truth about something, you want to be non-judgmental. Let's say you have a partner or spouse or someone you're with and you're trying to figure out if they're cheating on you. And if they start to reveal stuff and you start yelling, guess what? Interview's over. Here's the question, what is your goal? If your goal is I need to find out what this person has done so I can make a decision of whether I want to stay with them or not. I need information. So this is when you have to self-regulate and say, I'm not here to yell, I'm here to get intelligence. so I can make a good decision because when you don't have intelligence, you make bad decisions. When people feel that you're going to judge them, they're gonna stop telling you stuff and they're gonna filter information and then you're gonna make bad decisions in life because you don't know the truth and the choices you make off of bad information. That's the key. Then when you get everything you need to get, then you can go. There's a difference. Do you want to be right and ream the person or do you wanna get the information so that you can truly know what to do?
