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How To ATTRACT The Life You Want! | Lewis Howes

1 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this motivational segment, Lewis Howes emphasizes that attracting the life you desire begins with embodying the identity you wish to become. He urges listeners to ask themselves each day, “Who do I need to be today to attract the life I want?” and to act consistently as that person. Howes explains that our self‑beliefs shape the people and opportunities we draw into our world: believing oneself unworthy leads to attracting unworthy partners, while adopting a confident, worthy identity draws aligned opportunities. The core message is to consciously define and live in alignment with the desired identity until it becomes authentic.

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So ask yourself, who do I need to be today to attract the life I want? Then act like that person every moment of this day and when you believe you are a certain identity, you're going to attract people in your world, opportunities that are in alignment with your identity. If I believe I'm unworthy, my identity is unworthy of love, then I'm always going to attract guys or gals who flake on me after the first date. So we need to have our identity of what we want our identity to be and then start living in alignment with that identity so it becomes one.