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How To ATTRACT The Life You Want! | Lewis Howes

1 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this motivational excerpt, Jason Fried urges listeners to consciously choose the identity they wish to embody each day in order to attract a life that aligns with that self‑concept. He explains that believing oneself to be worthy or unworthy directly shapes the people and opportunities one draws into their world. By repeatedly acting as the desired version of oneself—thinking, feeling, and behaving accordingly—one can transform that identity from a mental construct into lived reality, thereby magnetizing compatible relationships and opportunities.

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So ask yourself, who do I need to be today to attract the life I want? Then act like that person every moment of this day and when you believe you are a certain identity, you're going to attract people in your world, opportunities that are in alignment with your identity. If I believe I'm unworthy, my identity is unworthy of love, then I'm always going to attract guys or gals who flake on me after the first date. So we need to have our identity of what we want our identity to be and then start living in alignment with that identity so it becomes one.