Lewis Howes shares how he confronted a partner he suspected of cheating. Instead of getting angry, he asked direct questions to get the truth. When she admitted to ongoing contact with someone else, he decided to leave.
You're trying to figure out if they're cheating on you. If they start to reveal stuff and you start yelling, guess what? Interview's over. Do you want to be right and ream the person, or do you want to get the information so that you can truly know what to do? I had a boyfriend. He leaves me. He starts dating somebody else. Then all of a sudden he reappears months later, but something wasn't right. I think he's still talking to her. So as painful as it was, I started asking questions. What happened? You must miss her. You talk to her? What was that like? My heart's broken as I'm hearing this, but he starts revealing, yes, I'm talking to her. And I'm talking to you, and I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. I was like, you know what, let me make it easy for you. I'm no longer a choice. I suggest you go to her.
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