Three speakers argue that real love means accepting someone completely, flaws and all, without trying to change them. True love isn't about perfection. It's about seeing all of who they are.
What happens when you try to change someone else? What does that say about you?
What I think it says is that you really don't love them deeply. Because when you love somebody deeply, you can accept them.
And you can see them.
Really deeply falling in love is to see everything.
About that person.
Not only the good parts, also the other parts. And saying to that person, I accept you. You're not perfect and you don't have to be because no one I accept you. And because I'm able to see all of the parts of you, then I love you deeper.
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