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How To Properly Get What You Want

5 Jun 2025 · 0 min

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If you want to get something out of someone. What's the difference between validating versus influencing?
Well, the two are not mutually exclusive in the sense that people are more easily influenced by those that they trust. If you trust that I understand what it takes to run this podcast, and I'm the best podcaster in the business, you're going to trust my suggestions. But influence is kind of a change agenda. Like I'm trying to push you in some direction rather than the acceptance of just what is.