How To Recreate Desire In Relationships | Matthew Hussey

She go on holiday and you go on holiday and then come back and tell each other about it. Have some space so that when you come back together, there's a little mystery to it. You know, this won't-- it will be scary. And this is why people get very emotional about this and they get upset because they're like, what do you mean get to know my husband less? What do you mean like spend time apart? We are supposed to be like this the whole time. But what they don't realize is you never know your partner as well as you think you do. So the idea that you're like this and you know everything about them is a complete illusion. And secondly, you doing that is death to the relationship. So if you really care and if you really are a team, you'll be able to trust each other, but you'll be able to give each other space to create that desire again.