How to Spot Self-Righteous Narcissism...

And then there's the self-righteous narcissist. The self-righteous narcissist is judgmental, moralistic, rigid. They're often funky with money. They will, like they will- They have no heart. It feels like no heart, but there's also this really rigid judgmental, and they judge people from the sense of, well, look at all I built. I guess I must have worked hard. They'll never account for their luck, right? Or sometimes their absence of bad luck, that kind of thing. They will say, if they say dinners at six, and you show up at 6 30 because your kid got sick, they'll say, I'm sorry we already ate. So it's very, it feels very rigid, cold, moralistic, miserly, obsessive. These are people who are often workaholics and with little care for how it would affect anyone. It was like there's workaholics out there who check in on other people, like, I'm gonna make time for you. Sure. Or once in, we're gonna do, we're taking a vacation when this is done, whatever. And they're communicating and people are aware, okay, they're doing this so we could buy the house or whatever.