How Unavailable People MANIPULATE You! | Matthew Hussey

You get a message from them, it can be next to nothing. It can be, what's up? And you've got all this adrenaline and you've been trying to figure out how to solve this riddle of getting them back into your life. And you get to send a two word message. It feels like the most important thing in the world. And of course, when you get that rush of blood to the head, how can it not feel kind of euphoric? How can it not give you an extraordinary feeling? And when you get that extraordinary feeling and those chemicals are released, you go, oh, my God, I feel so strongly for this person. But you don't feel strongly for this person. You feel strongly for the dynamic. There's a big difference between those two things.