How Your Attachment Style Might Hinder Your Relationship...

Have you ever seen people who have an anxious or an avoidant attachment style get in a relationship with someone who's safe and secure.

I think often you're you are attracting kind of particular dynamics though if and when you meet a safe and secure individual I think often what you'll feel especially if you are more of the anxious type or the high emotions you come from a chaotic stressful childhood typically you might start to see them as boring right there's no passion is there anything even here is it worth continuing So I would not say it's that you don't attract them or you can't find your way into meeting a person I don't think the relationship would be something that you would pursue or would be pursued for very long and those are typically the languages interesting and how it registers oh there's a passion here interesting maybe we're just friends friendzone this person this is boring or it's not what I'm looking for.