This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "If you can't forgive, you'll NEVER have love!" featuring a monologue by Joe Dispenza discussing the importance of overcoming emotions and forgiveness to move forward in life, recorded on July 14, 2025.
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What happens if we don't forgive something that our partner or in a relationship does? If it hurts us or they said something or they did something? Maybe it was really bad or just. We can't forgive. You'll never have love. Wow. The love that we withhold is the pain that we experience lifetime after lifetime. You know, it's how it is. The. Say it again. The love that we withhold is the pain that we experience lifetime after. And then when we master our emotions, we master our creations. So that's a creation. And you have to overcome the memory and the emotion. And when you do, you belong to the future instead of the past. Oh, man. So otherwise. Well, that's a perfect explanation of karma. You live by that emotion. That emotion is going to drive a certain behavior and cause you to think a certain way. And you're on a wheel, you're going to. People are living the same lifetime every day. They're in cycles. They're living the same lifetime after a lifetime because they haven't overcome the emotion. No one's doing that to them. The soul can't go to the future. Can't go. It can't go if it's stuck in the emotion of the past. So the soul has to overcome the event by overcoming the emotion. Forget what happened. You'll never hear me say to anybody. Tell me your story. I will never say that. I would never do that to you. Wow. I would say, overcome the emotion, and then the story ends. Wow. Because the memory without that emotional charge is the wisdom we get from the experience. We never have to do it again. And now the soul says, okay, I'm ready for the next adventure. Okay. So I was betrayed. Okay. I learned the lesson. I did this, I did that. Okay, I got it. But we discovered that when people analyze their life within some disturbing emotion, they make their brain worse 100% of the time. Holy cow. Thinking in the past, the answer is not there. Overcome the emotion. Actually thinking about it makes the brain worse. It drives them into higher states of arousal. Overcome the emotion. You have the answer to your own question. Because it's not in the known. It's not in the past. You got to get beyond it. So I say to people, when they ask me questions, just seven days, just cross the river. You're going to have the answers to your own questions. There's going to be no better life coach for you than you over this. So then the person who shows up worthy in their life, a person who's happy because they're making themselves happy, that's such an unknown for everybody that they've just left and showed back up in their life. Or they usually complain with. They're like, oh, my God, this person's joined a cult. Oh, my God, this person seems way too happy, and they're happy without me, you know? And really, it's just an energy that's. That the person has broken out of the chains. They free themselves from the chains of the past, right?
