Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?

I saw this article on Vogue. Is having a boyfriend embarrassing Now? Why should women get in a relationship with a man if there's also benefit for women being single?

There's a romanticization of the independent, feminine, strong woman. And I think a lot of that is really positive. But I also think it's created a culture where women are encouraged to kind of be one striker out as a man. Oh, he doesn't get along with his parents. Red flag. Like every yellow or magenta flag is a red flag. And you're this strong, independent, beautiful woman, and you don't need a man. The advice I give to men is, is would you want to have with you? Are you in shape? Do you have a plan? Are you kind? How do you demonstrate excellence?