Is This the Best Way to Avoid Lying?

What's the tell or the question to know if someone is really lying? Okay, I'll answer this question, but I'm curious, what kind of liar are you? Everybody lies. We're all liars. Let's own it. I'm a naive liar. What does that mean? It means... Here's the thing. The commitment I made to Martha when the day I met her, I said, you, ask me anything, I'll tell you the truth. But you don't have to sh-- But also, I may not want to have the conversation that you're asking me. So I may say, like, I'm not having this conversation. So don't ask certain things that also So, no, you don't want to know about my past. It's not like harmful stuff. Like, I just don't want it to be some ideas in her mind about whatever past relationships or just positions, whatever it might be, right? It's like, okay, let's keep certain things out. Do you see how much you learn when you don't know? So.