"It's NOT Your Job!" | Mel Robbins

It's not your job to make excuses for somebody who is immature. It's not your job to change somebody who has a narcissistic personality style. It's not your job to take away somebody's disappointment or sadness. You need to let them. And when you do it, it's the ultimate boundary because then you separate your emotions and energy from someone else. And then you say the second part, which is let me. and let me see this person very clearly. Because if I see this person's immature behavior, what I realize is that this is a person who was just never taught the skill of understanding and managing their emotions in a responsible and healthy way. And I can't teach him that.